There’s a site just for Canadians, there’s a site that focuses just on Vancouver, and there’s a site that limits itself just to people with the bondage fetish. Some of the sites reviewed are quite specialized in focus, too.
Reviews are offered for twelve BDSM dating sites, though some of the sites are actually rather more than that FetLife, for instance, will be known to most of you as a place where kinky hookups are possible, but also as a full-service (if quirky) kinky social-media site. This guide to BDSM dating sites bills itself as the “best BDSM dating sites on the web”, and from the limited perspective of our spanking kink, I’m inclined to agree with it, for the sole reason that their top pick and my top pick are the same, as I’ll explain below.